How does one succeed in life?

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

How do I get off Paxil?

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Why are Christians quick to say that there are a lot the gay Christians that exist NOW and use that to pretend that Christianity is just loving to gays when the last 40 years of my life they been horrible?

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Making more friends is a goal.

Why is going on a date today so much different than it was when I was young?

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Why would Hugh Grant cheat on Elizabeth Hurley?

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

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What I need from you?

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Do you think a lot of sociopaths' parents kill themselves for having brought such disgusting evil into the world? How much shame and disgust must they carry?

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Why did I move on so fast from a relationship that was my whole life and I was so attached, I moved on by 2 months?

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Why do some people refuse to explain their actions or behavior when asked? Why do they claim to not know the reason instead of providing an explanation?

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Can bosses get fired for being too hard on employees?

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

That's it for today.

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Procrastinates a lot.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

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Does not procrastinate.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Any straight men had a gay experience in the past? What was it and how did you feel?

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Ask yourself:

Hangs out with loser friends.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.